GUILTY PLEASURES


 Often it has occurred to me that he who has done wrong with me ought to be punished. God must be unfair to him. Happiness should never lie in his vicinity and what not. All the stuff we say or react to is a result of prolonged accumulation of the 5 letter word called ANGER. We say or do anything out of the blue when we are angry and the mind fails to control the heart. This is a serious disease that can affect many others in your vicinity. The kind of pleasure one gets by hurting and letting out verbal abuses when he is angry on someone is just weird and dramatic to me. What’s the end result after all?? All you do is feel bad about it in the long run…..keep thinking about that incident and wish that it never happened in your life. The dreadful feeling called guilt eats up your brain day by day recursively calling your mind and confirming the fact that what you did wasn’t really you. Caught in this guilty-pleasure tug of war, the most liable solution visible to me is a small token of apology.

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